Saturday, July 14, 2018

Smelling Like my Daddy


I was shuffling a deck of worn playing cards the other day when I caught the scent of my dad.
It wasn’t his familiar cologne smell. It was the distinct smell of the oil in his skin. His smell was comforting to me. After he died, I had saved the washcloth that protected the upholstery of his chair, absorbing the oil from the back of his head. I saved this weird memento so I could still smell him. With my mother, it was a robe she had worn a few times since the last laundry. I’ve put the robe on  when I just wanted to sit alone and remember her.
The sense of smell is one of the most powerful senses.  Research supports the idea that smell is the best trigger for unlocking childhood memories. I believe it because every time I empty the dirt out of my vacuum cleaner, I still go straight back to a scene with my parents emptying a full bag after cleaning our church.
But the deck of cards had me stumped. Dad has been gone a few years and he had never used those cards. How did his scent get on them? After repeated rounds of gin rummy, shuffles, smells, and questions, my husband posed the theory that the oil on my hands may be like Dad’s. He’s probably right again.
So I guess I share my dad’s scent in the same way I share many other traits he gave me. To me, it’s a sweet smell because it’s his. To others, it may smell like musty old socks.
The same phenomenon occurs with my heavenly Father. Paul told the Corinthian church that when they spread the knowledge of Christ, it is like a fragrance that smells like Him.
But thank God! He has made us his captives and continues to lead us along in Christ’s triumphal procession. Now he uses us to spread the knowledge of Christ everywhere, like a sweet perfume. [2 Corinthians 2:14, NLT]
Yet this fragrance doesn’t smell the same to everyone. To some, it is the sweetest life-giving aroma. To others, it carries a stench.
Our lives are a Christ-like fragrance rising up to God. But this fragrance is perceived differently by those who are being saved and by those who are perishing. To those who are perishing, we are a dreadful smell of death and doom. But to those who are being saved, we are a life-giving perfume. And who is adequate for such a task as this?  [2 Corinthians 2:15-16, NLT]
I love that Paul acknowledges how inadequate we are for the task of sharing God’s story. Sometimes we get discouraged that we aren’t doing enough or aren’t effective at spreading the word about Jesus. Or that people think our testimony stinks a little. Next time that happens, take a pause to remember that you smell an awful lot like Him!